It happens to me most of the time, but not that its a consolation, his abusive behavior affects other people, too. I cannot understand why he has no boundaries about how far he would go to say such hurtful, evil things. He said he won’t be the best man at his brother’s wedding. For what? All because of stupid reasons - Because his younger brother had a different opinion on who he thinks the pound for pound fighter is. Which hotel we should be staying during the wedding. Basketball pointers. Its crazy how he would go so low, and as far as saying he does not want to be a part of the wedding because of these things. I just cannot understand it, how he can go to such extremes because someone just thinks differently than he does.
I have audio of him that night, saying all kinds of awful things about his own brother:
"He's such a spoiled little bitch, I hate him!"
"You stupid fuck, I'm not gonna be at that wedding you asshole."
"I hope they find that bitch on the side of the road." (inferring that he wouldn't care if he got hurt and was found helpless somewhere)
"I'm stepping down, I don't give a fuck what you do with the wedding."
"I fucking hate you you stupid bitch."
All this while he threw a bottled water and smashed it against the front door. He also started taking out stuff from the fridge, and just started throwing it, making a big mess. I made him clean it up the next morning.
I was so happy that the kids were sleeping over at their grandparents' that night. It would have been awful if they had been woken up by their belligirent dad. I was so scared that night, and granted that his abusiveness wasn't towards me, it was just as terrifying. I felt my insides shake, it just felt horrible, and would have hated it if the kids saw such a monster in their dad.
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